Please help me deal with my passive agressive sister. She chose to go back to work after 6 weeks while her husband bought a brand new high end (BMW, mercedes, etc.) car while pleading she HAD to work--couldn´t stay home even a month or two more, because they are so poor (okay I know this is the american way, but aaaah!)
Anyway she did her research and didn´t want to vax, but does because she "HAS" to and dh believes doctors, just on and on, then she tells me like she wants me to get mad (I think thats our dynamic, I get mad for her or something) I don´t want to do that!
How do I just not get pissed at her and let it go? I am always like, oh nice your husband got a new car, etc. Is there a non passive agressive way to tell her to stop telling me this stuff or maybe should I just keep my trap shut? i am a little pmsy so maybe this too shall pass and I will just smile as she tells me after vaxes how the baby is this and that? Help!
In any case, it feels good to vent!
TIA
